A Sex Position That Almost Guarantees Orgasms for Both You and Your Partner

This is called the modified missionary position. While in the missionary position, the male will move his body up by one or two inches without pulling out of the female. While in this position, he will use only his hands and elbows to move up and down instead of moving his hips to penetrate in and out. This position will allow the man to last longer and it will also provide more stimulation to the woman's clitoris. The chances of both parties having orgasms is increased exponentially. There's also a good chance of simultaneous orgasms.

 

Modified Woman on Top

While this one is covered in a previous chapter, we felt it was worth repeating here.

In the standard 'woman on top' position, the man lays on his back while the woman sits upright, on top of him. The woman has more control of the angle and speed of the thrusts and can therefore reach orgasm more easily. For the man, laying on his back usually delays ejaculation. So, it works well for both partners.

The modified version of this position helps both partners more. Instead of sitting upright, the woman can lean forward anywhere between a 45-degree to 60-degree angle, and use her hands for support. Then, instead of moving up and down, she moves her hips back and forth. This position allows for more clitoral stimulation for the woman and further allows the man to last longer when compared to the up and down motion.

Sideways

Both the man and woman lie on their sides, facing each other. They can both bend their top legs (the legs that are furthest from the ground) at the knees, the man keeping his leg between the woman's legs while the woman rest her upper leg over the man's waist. The woman can rest her head on the man's lower arm (the arm closer to the ground.)  This position also allows men to last longer while providing women with greater stimulation/friction. Also, neither one of the people involved has to support the other's body weight on top of their own. Both partners can rest on their sides.

If Size Matters . . .

Deeper Penetration

The female is laying on the table (or bed) on her back, using only her upper body so that her butt rests on the edge of the table. Her lower body is vertical, legs fully extended and toes pointing towards the ceiling. The man enters her while allowing her to rest her legs on his shoulders, one on each side. This position allows for deeper penetration.

A Variation of the Above The female lays in bed on her back while her legs are vertical, fully extended. The male is sitting upright, legs folded, one knee resting on each side of the woman's body. She lifts her legs up and puts them on each side of his shoulders. The male can gently hold on to her legs for stability as he moves his hips back and forth. This position also allows for deeper penetration.

More Friction

This is a variation of the previous two positions. The difference is that instead of the woman resting her legs on each side of the man's shoulders, she rest both legs on just one of his shoulders and then she places one knee over the other so that her ankles are crossed. This allows both her thighs to press against each other creating a narrower opening in her vagina which in turn creates more friction during penetration. Both partners will feel more friction and more stimulation during intercourse. Be certain that there is adequate lubrication.

Doggie Style

The female assumes the kneeling position, resting on her knees and elbows. Her upper arms are extended in front of her on which she can rest her head. The male, resting on his knees, enters her from behind. This position also allows for more penetration.

Variation of Above Position

This is a variation of the doggie style. The female lays on her tummy on a bed or table while her legs are hanging from the edge of the bed/table. The male is standing, and enters from behind, again allowing for greater penetration.

Caution: Keep in mind that greater penetration is not always better. If the penetration is too deep, it can cause the woman pain and can sometimes also cause internal damage. Use good judgment.

An Added Tip Regarding Size

Some experts suggest that when a woman is fully aroused before penetration, her vaginal opening appears to decrease in size and also creates a suction mechanism around the penis. This can compensate for a not-so-large penis.

So, the best thing guys can do is to enjoy lots of foreplay before intercourse, if size is an issue!

Other Positions for Variety

Try having sex standing up. The woman can lean against the wall. The man lifts one of her legs up and enters her. This is not an easy position and may require some practice. If the man is taller than the woman is, he may have to stand with his feet spread further apart to compensate for the height difference.

Try different positions in the tub. This can be a lot of fun. Although, be careful of slipping accidents.

Don't let this limit your imagination. Using different "places", for example, the recliner instead of the couch, will give you a chance to find new and more interesting positions for both you and your partner.

Generally, women prefer that you don't break contact once you're inside her. So, unless you're changing to another position that requires you to pull out of her first, stay inside her for as long as you can.

While we're on the subject, here's another way to make things more exciting:

Start with one position, and change to up to 5 other positions without  breaking contact, i.e. without pulling out. Let's see how creative you can get. Take your time with this one. Don't rush during the changes and don't pull any muscles. You don't want to injure yourself or your partner.